tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15140645.post113319132040308280..comments2023-05-20T04:44:07.620-06:00Comments on Sarahspace: Love and marriage (and babies and ...)Sarah Elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06165906925703092225noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15140645.post-1133629543566766022005-12-03T10:05:00.000-07:002005-12-03T10:05:00.000-07:00Hey Sarah, you forgot to include me in your kaleid...Hey Sarah, you forgot to include me in your kaleidoscope of relationships. The 48-50ish fun-loving woman who is finally ready to get married and I mean in the sense of Turtle guy's analysis. I don't see much point in physical intimacy without spiritual connection (been there, done that) and am now looking to get REAL DEEP with that special man via a Tantric journey....adivina quien?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15140645.post-1133374258291281202005-11-30T11:10:00.000-07:002005-11-30T11:10:00.000-07:00Physical indiscretion in a marriage is a sign of i...Physical indiscretion in a marriage is a sign of immaturity. The solution is simple, yet complex enough to make you need to drink too much: decide whether you really want to be married. Be true to yourself, because, no one else will, and no one else needs the responsibility.<BR/><BR/>How long before someone tells about me? Well, I've been married 13 years and my father in law still thinks I'm my Elliothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09276602228894928374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15140645.post-1133309753101327462005-11-29T17:15:00.000-07:002005-11-29T17:15:00.000-07:00Can't resist the questions!Would a ‘physical indis...Can't resist the questions!<BR/><BR/>Would a ‘physical indiscretion’ end a relationship for you? <BR/>Not necessarily - I've had a few of my own indiscretions, but really only after I think I knew in my heart that it was "over" with someone. If I was married, that might be different. I suspect it would be the end.<BR/><BR/>Ever been celibate by choice? <BR/>Not really, although it doesn't Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15140645.post-1133249925205308032005-11-29T00:38:00.000-07:002005-11-29T00:38:00.000-07:00Hello Sarah, What wonderfully interesting and intr...Hello Sarah, <BR/><BR/>What wonderfully interesting and introspective questions you offer your readers to ponder. Offering comments is another subject all together.<BR/><BR/>Concerning a ‘physical indiscretion’ probably not, and no even if I <I>did</I> get angry.<BR/><BR/>'Celibate by choice?' Sort of. I didn't chose to be celibate in the beginning, but I did decide not to have sex despite the M A Fhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10244099437271478216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15140645.post-1133225971592327022005-11-28T17:59:00.000-07:002005-11-28T17:59:00.000-07:00OH: Very wise words, my friend!ZZ: Interesting t...OH: Very wise words, my friend!<BR/><BR/>ZZ: Interesting that you "didn't really care" AND "not...really in love". I think that says it all. Much as the "L" word is often avoided, even shunned, it's important to consider, and I don't care who you are, you KNOW the differece between being in "L" and being in "l". <BR/><BR/>ALL: Funny, this morning I was thinking I would post about "L" - the Turtle Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11867461015503674899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15140645.post-1133221857867478662005-11-28T16:50:00.000-07:002005-11-28T16:50:00.000-07:00Case 1: People should decide, and then agree in gr...Case 1: People should decide, and then agree in great detail, prior to marriage, "what marriage means to me (and doesn't mean)". If they agree not to be physically faithful... well, alright, I guess that could conceivably work, but I'll bet you a euro that it won't work... and I couldn't live that way.oldhallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01334100395907573986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15140645.post-1133213699892634302005-11-28T14:34:00.000-07:002005-11-28T14:34:00.000-07:001. Probably. It would certainly precipitate some e...1. Probably. It would certainly precipitate some enormous changes.<BR/><BR/>2. About a month if we were dating seriously. Two and a half years?! Honestly, I'd think either a)my partner was ashamed of me or b)he was a sissy with a strange parental relationship. If he couldn't work up the muster to tell mum and dad he was dating, I'd be pretty worried about my potential inlaws! And the potential Madcaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08966173518099250557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15140645.post-1133209688171983162005-11-28T13:28:00.000-07:002005-11-28T13:28:00.000-07:00Z. - I'm glad you thought the post was 'juicy'. I ...Z. - I'm glad you thought the post was 'juicy'. I think the comments are equally so!<BR/><BR/>IPM - I'm sure the experiences with the kids will be interesting!<BR/><BR/>TG - Holy cow, man. Your comment was longer than my post! Good food for thought though.... :-)Sarah Elainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06165906925703092225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15140645.post-1133209365645183332005-11-28T13:22:00.000-07:002005-11-28T13:22:00.000-07:00thought provoking!Would a ‘physical indiscretion’ ...thought provoking!<BR/><BR/>Would a ‘physical indiscretion’ end a relationship for you? <BR/><BR/>How much space can I take up to answer this one? As with life, I believe there’s no right or wrong answer to this particular question. It has everything to do with circumstances. It is my believe, however, that ‘physical indiscretion” occurs for basically one of a couple reasons. (a) there’s Turtle Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11867461015503674899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15140645.post-1133204821497093292005-11-28T12:07:00.000-07:002005-11-28T12:07:00.000-07:00I'm pretty boring... been with OH since I was 21,...I'm pretty boring... been with OH since I was 21, and will be 40 next year, so that's a long time... can't imagine either of us having any kind of physical indescretion... it's almost too funny to think about! <BR/><BR/>was celibate before I met Peter, he was the first...<BR/><BR/>maybe it will all get interesting with the kids... but they are all late-ish bloomers, and except for the ipodmommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06581681803719510867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15140645.post-1133203646926280672005-11-28T11:47:00.000-07:002005-11-28T11:47:00.000-07:00ooh, juicy post!Would a ‘physical indiscretion’ en...ooh, juicy post!<BR/>Would a ‘physical indiscretion’ end a relationship for you? It would depend. It would definitely be a huge stumbling block. I was in a relationship once where I didn't really care, but I'm not sure I was really in love at the time, either.<BR/><BR/>Ever been celibate by choice? <BR/>Umm. No. A bit too often am celibate by misfortune! <BR/><BR/>How long would you wait for zouzouhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01593688164461793969noreply@blogger.com